All-summer-long vacation comes to a close

Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass under trees on a summer’s day, listening to the murmur of the water, or watching the clouds float across the sky, is by no means a waste of time.
– John Lubbock, banker, Liberal politician, philanthropist, scientist, and polymath, from The Use of Life

It’s been almost a month since I last posted. When I began my blog back in December 2012, I diligently posted three times a week, on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Even when I was on work deadline and/or sleep-deprived, I never failed to post on the appointed days. Earlier this year, I dropped down to blogging two days a week – Tuesdays and Fridays – so that I could transfer my writing energies to my fiction. Then summer hit, and suddenly I went on vacation in every sense of the word. Though my anal-retentive side of me engaged in a fair amount of hand-wringing in the beginning, I soon gave way to what I call my all-summer-long vacation in which rest was the destination.

For the first time since I was a student, when the last day of school ended in early June for my kids, I, too, entered summer vacation. In past years, when I picked up the kids and headed to a park for a picnic lunch gathering with other families, my excitement over school ending died quickly as I realized that while my kids had a nearly three-month break from schoolwork and homework ahead of them, I had to keep working. And taking them to their day camps or dropping them off for their sleep-away camps.

When the garden was overflowing earlier in the summer.

When the garden was overflowing earlier in the summer.

I enjoyed putting together the courtyard in the back of our house. Once it was done, I took leisurely weekend breakfast under the umbrella. I got the kids to eat lunch outside with me during the week – and they enjoyed themselves as much as I did. We ate dinners while listening to Pandora stations or Oakland A’s baseball games. I gardened and gardened to my heart’s content – until the fog and powdery mildew shut down most of my flowers. Still, I watched over my garden, pruning, weeding, hoping against hope that one more bloom would burst open and surprise me.

Jacob at bat in a Fremont, CA, tournament.

Jacob at bat in a Fremont, CA, tournament (photo credit: Robert Milton, Hornet dad and fantastic photographer and team chronicler via the lens).

Moms enjoying Hornets baseball in Fremont.

Moms enjoying Hornets baseball in Fremont – always wear your fashionable hat for protection against the sun (photo credit: Robert Milton).

We went to a lot of baseball games – my son’s travel ball games and, of course, the A’s. We sat in the sun and cheered as if there were nothing else in the world to do. No housecleaning or deadlines. No errands to run or bills to pay or laundry to do. Nothing else mattered.

A's win! Okay, well, this was back in July....

A’s win! Okay, well, this was back in July….

I didn’t feel like blogging. I especially didn’t feel like styling outfits and photographing them. I lived in t-shirts and shorts most of the summer. I didn’t feel like going back to my research. Yes, guilt crept in. Time was flowing. I don’t have the luxury of time. I tried to do push myself to blog and research. But my heart wasn’t into it. I was, after all, on vacation. I came across John Lubbock’s quote, and it seemed timely to find it while I was wrestling with myself. I have always struggled with rest and relaxation. And being older, I have witnessed the struggle becoming more fierce.

Obviously taken before my haircut. When not in t-shirts and shorts, I can still be comfortable and dressy at the same time.

Obviously taken before my haircut. When not in t-shirts and shorts, I can still be comfortable and dressy at the same time.

But being older means – hopefully – being wiser and mellower. Rest and you will be fresh and prepared for the next long-distance race. Clear your mind and when you sit down to write the words will be thoughtful and full of clarity.

Vintage pearl earrings, Sundance bangle, flower ring, and necklace.

Vintage pearl earrings, Sundance bangle, flower ring, and necklace against a textured flowery t-shirt.

Interesting textures and shapes in earthy shades.

Interesting textures and shapes in earthy shades.

As August heads to its end, alas, the race looms. Summer is coming to a close. On Monday, my daughter will enter sixth grade, the last year of elementary school. My son will enter high school. They will begin their separate milestones. Sadness is mixed with a little anxiety and desire to see friends on a daily basis. And for me? My summer is coming to a close, too. We had our family vacation in early August, which I’ll chronicle in a number of blog posts this coming week. But I wanted to preface these vacation posts with an explanation of my “absence” and an affirmation for all-summer-long vacations being good for the heart, mind, and soul.

Summer outfit with fall shades in mind....

Summer outfit with fall shades in mind….

Alas, farewell summer bouquets

A garden should make you feel you’ve entered privileged space – a place not just set apart but reverberant – and it seems to me that, to achieve this, the gardener must put some kind of twist on the existing landscape, turn its prose into something nearer poetry.
– Michael Pollan, American author, journalist, activist, and journalism professor at UC Berkeley, from Second Nature: A Gardener’s Education

There’s still a week left in the month of July, but my summer garden is expiring. After a bit of an early start in May this year, the garden flourished, thanks to a warm June.

But then July and our reliable air conditioner, a.k.a. the fog, rolled in and, coupled with my zealous overwatering, powdery mildew crept in. My good friend and fellow gardener Susie suggested spraying Neem oil on the leaves. While some plants had clearly gone past the point of no return – curled brown and black leaves, which the folks at Pastime Ace store in El Cerrito told me was a sign that the cells had died – many were still green but just dusted with a thick layer of mildew. A hearty dose seemed to have worked. But alas, despite our rising temperatures after a strange Monday thunderstorm and cloudy mornings, the powdery mildew returned and the plants are succumbing to a premature end of season.

Mid-July bouquet for the Portola auction winner.

Mid-July bouquet for the Portola auction winner.

Scabiosa atropurpurea "Florist's Blue" adorns the courtyard.

Scabiosa atropurpurea “Florist’s Blue” adorns the courtyard.

Plants, I told Isabella, my budding gardener, are difficult to nurture if you are desiring long-lasting, healthy blooms. You have to watch out for cutworms, cucumber beetles, snails, slugs, and other pests. You have to be vigilant about fungus and other diseases, and, pardon the pun, nip them in the bud. But no matter that this summer I was the constant gardener who tirelessly fertilized, weeded, squashed snails beneath my sandal, squeezed cucumber beetles between leaves, clipped spent foliage, pinched buds for larger blooms, and moved plants around the yard to meet their shade or sun requirements, I couldn’t or can’t extend a blooming garden into September, which I have done in years past.

Just five dinner-plate dahlias form this dramatic bouquet.

Just five dinner-plate dahlias form this dramatic bouquet. Funky vase with a lot of character from Urban Ore – for a dollar fifty.

The last of the white dahlias....

The last of the white dahlias in the courtyard….

So I lament the end of the flower season and the Portola bouquets. And I think of preparations for next season. Do we take out the tubers in late fall? We need to separate the dahlia tubers anyway, so we’ll see if that makes a difference. We’ll mix compost into the garden soil in the winter. I’ll get those snails in early spring before they so much as nibble a tender green leaf.

Bird of Paradise peeking out of monochromatic dahlia bouquet.

Bird of Paradise peeking out of monochromatic dahlia bouquet.

And dream of a spring, summer, and early fall garden that would make Eden blush. Here’s to the last Portola bouquet and my last delivery of the summer. Be still my heavy gardener’s heart.

The last bouquet of the season, with chocolate cosmos, Cupid's dart, scabiosas, lilies, and, of course, the last of the dahlias.

The last bouquet of the season, with chocolate cosmos, Cupid’s dart, scabiosas, lilies, and, of course, the last of the dahlias.

 

A ‘Vintage’ 4th of July

Let us dance in the sun, wearing wild flowers in our hair.
– Susan Polis Schutz, American poet

The 4th of July has come and gone, and I’m in recovery mode. A lot of work went into creating the courtyard and preparing for my cousin Janet and her husband Tim’s annual visit for this three-day holiday. First things first, though, was meeting up with them at Oakland Coliseum’s O.co for a date with the Oakland A’s against the Toronto Blue Jays. They got a late start from leaving the Central Valley and finally got to the ballpark in the 5th inning. We got caught up and imbibed – yes, they serve wine at O.co – and cheered the local team to the first win of what would become a four-game sweep by the time the 4th of July weekend ended. For the third year in a row, we enjoyed the fireworks show after the game, but minus Jacob, who celebrated his friend Connor’s birthday by cavorting on the grassy field during the show. As a child, I was never that excited about fireworks, but magic happens when you watch your kids’ faces light up with delight and wonder, and it matters where you are and who you’re with. Magic.

First up for the long weekend - the A's defeat the Toronto Blue Jays before the fireworks show.

First up for the long weekend – the A’s defeat the Toronto Blue Jays before the fireworks show.

Ready for fireworks!

Ready for fireworks!

Colorful cobwebs or lightning - the fireworks are beautiful just the same.

Colorful cobwebs or lightning – the fireworks are beautiful just the same.

Spectacular fireworks come raining down.

Spectacular fireworks come raining down.

Despite the fog trying to ruin our little parade, the sun came out enough to allow us to enjoy having breakfast, lunch, and dinner (except for Friday evening) in the courtyard. While the evenings were cool, we were protected by the walls and fence, and spent late nights with blankets, music from Frank Sinatra and his gang, and conversations illuminated by candlelight and string of lights surrounding us. Breakfast sandwiches, pancakes and bacon – mornings were especially ripe for relaxing and taking our time. After the flurry of preparation, this is exactly what I needed, but it’s what everyone should be doing on this particular holiday. Enjoy the weather, family and friends, and traditions, and be grateful for what we have. After breakfast, we walked to Cerrito Vista Park for the city’s annual 4th of July celebration. Lots of music, fun booths, and bumping into friends. We listened to a wonderful performance by the El Cerrito High School’s jazz band, which just left to compete in numerous European jazz festivals.

Annual El Cerrito 4th of July celebration at Cerrito Vista Park.

Annual El Cerrito 4th of July celebration at Cerrito Vista Park.

On Saturday, Janet, Isabella, and I foraged for vintage and salvage goods at Ohmega Salvage (2403 San Pablo Avenue, Berkeley, CA 94702, 510.843.7368) and Urban Ore (900 Murray Street, Berkeley, CA 94710, 510.841.7283). Urban Ore has been the epicenter of inexpensive (read: $1 to $3 per item) glass vases for my bouquets. It’s always fun to poke around these places, even if you come away empty-handed. It’s the experience that makes these forays so fun. At Ohmega Salvage, we were treated to a spirited performance by Cuban Maestro Fito Reinoso & Clasicos de Cuba while we shopped.

Omega Salvage featured an art and garden show, plus Cuban Maestro Fito Reinoso & Clasicos de Cuba.

Omega Salvage featured an art and garden show, plus Cuban Maestro Fito Reinoso & Clasicos de Cuba.

After such a fun afternoon, it was easy to lure Janet to the Alameda Flea Market (also known as the Alameda Pointe Antiques Faire), which is the largest antiques show in Northern California. I first attended the flea market (2900 Navy Way, Alameda, CA 94501, 510.522.7500) with my friend Raissa back in March, but our morning was cut short by mist-turned-rain. This time around, the fog burned off easily, but we were constrained by needing to be back by 11AM to take Isabella to her organic farm camp that early afternoon. We made the best of our time, staking out a route and only stopping when something caught our eye.

The fog slowly burned away to reveal a view of San Francisco's skyline.

The fog slowly burned away to reveal a view of San Francisco’s skyline.

It wasn’t easy, and though we covered a lot of territory, I didn’t like feeling so rushed. Next time, I told myself. Janet was going crazy with the sensory overload and the miles of white tents before us. She loves salvaged goods and got lots of DIY ideas from the various wares. Favorite vendor of the day? Williams Antiks (707.332.0890). William was very cheerful and knowledgeable, explaining what some of the contraptions were in his booth. He and his wife travel to France and bring back really high-end beautiful vintage and antique items such as puppets, tiles, mannequins, and furniture. While there were many vendors who bring back fabulous French goods, I was hurting for Italian vendors, given the courtyard’s vibe. I found, however, a wonderful addition to my courtyard, and I’m glad I pulled the trigger on the spot. William had to throw a blanket over it to keep it safe from other interested buyers, and when I wheeled it out and into the parking lot, my little find received many a compliment from an enviable flea market shopper.

One of my favorite booths of the day - Williams Antiks.

One of my favorite booths of the day – Williams Antiks.

I spy a garden cart that wants to come home with me and settle in my courtyard.

I spy a garden cart that wants to come home with me and settle in my courtyard.

There were so many great items for a more expansive back yard, but that will come later. Isabella found her Breyer horses for a song. Janet picked up a mining cart, of all things, which was heavy and beautiful. And I found a pair of architecturally stunning teal iron chairs that I carried around with us and then shoved into the back seat of my car, both no small feat. After we dropped Isabella off at camp and returned home, I clipped back the dripping branches of the peach tree, rearranged the bird houses, and settled the chairs in their new spot. Lovely. It needs either pea gravel or crushed granite instead of dirt. And the other problem, according to Jacob, is that it needs a small table for the food that the people sitting in the chairs will be eating. Well, I told him, I guess I’ll have to venture to the flea market in August. Maybe, fingers crossed, that rusted iron headboard that I knew wouldn’t fit in the car will be there waiting for me. Until then, it’s time to enjoy post-holiday time and the rest of July relaxing in the courtyard.

The new spot for the garden cart, awaiting tea towels, napkins, hanging wine glasses, and fine chocolates to go with the bouquet of flowers.

The new spot for the earthy green iron garden cart, awaiting tea towels, napkins, hanging wine glasses, and fine chocolates to go with the bouquet of flowers.

Come sit under the peach tree and invite birds to join us....

Come sit under the trimmed-up peach tree and invite birds to join us….

Backyard reclamation project: cozy courtyard

Deep summer is when laziness finds respectability.
– Sam Keen, American author, professor, and philosopher

It’s all done now – the project that claimed every waking moment of my life the last month. What started as a dianthus garden in a corner of the backyard (it was the only place in the backyard where plants would not be smashed by basketballs and teenaged boys) bloomed into a backyard reclamation project and finally evolved into a cozy courtyard. My only regret is that I didn’t take “before” photos so that everyone outside of my family can appreciate the transformation as much as we can.

My new dianthus garden in a corner of the backyard, with poppies and an unknown plant.

I don’t really have a “before” shot before I moved the containers from other areas of the yard to this spot for the dianthus garden, but this is as close as I can get to what the corner of the yard looked like before the transformation. The composter is gone, as are the discarded building materials.

So just imagine a concrete square outside of our garage and utility room. As recently as two months ago, a neglected but thriving rosemary bush near the side yard gate planted by Joe, the first owner of the property, took up about one-eighth of the concrete square. I engaged in two separate hacking sessions to get the very hardy bush to its current small tree-like shape. When the weather got warmer, I looked longingly at our rusted patio furniture in the dust bowl of our center backyard – a table with four chairs and a chaise lounge, which Rex, in his younger, energetic days, used more than any of us, as his lookout for squirrels and neighborhood cat intruders. Discarded building materials comprising pipes and boards and a broken-up plastic bin full of sprinkler parts littered the concrete square. I threw them over the north side gate on the strip of concrete that harbors stacks of leftover slate from our south side garden, and dragged the patio furniture to the space.

A view of the courtyard from the back side.

A view of the courtyard from the back side – with Isabella enjoying it as well. Shielded on three sides, even when the Bay Area fog and wind roll in, the courtyard is protected and the peach and cherry trees isolate us from our neighbors.

A bistro table and set of chairs find a home on the opposite side of the fence, along with potted flowers, metal sculptures and a string of solar lights.

A bistro table and set of chairs find a home on the opposite side of the fence, along with potted flowers, metal sculptures and a string of solar lights.

That worked for a bit. When it was my turn to pick up Isabella and her friends from drama camp in the afternoons, the girls retreated to the chaise lounge and chairs, eating cups of ice cream in the warm weather, which was unusual for our June. That’s when I started imagining a cozy courtyard, filled with blooming flowers in containers, not just in the dianthus garden, but on the other side, up against the side of the house. I looked around the rest of the yard to see what I could spirit away or rescue to build into the courtyard. I wanted to use what we already had in our yard first in order to be green. A beloved rusted “garden” sign, which was hidden behind a small tree in our side garden found a new home on our red fence, and an angel, an acorn, and a bird feeder all migrated to the new space.

Transplanted garden sign and its new companions on the fence - a string of solar lights and a metal winged insect.

Transplanted garden sign and its new companions on the fence – a string of solar lights and a metal winged insect.

An angel watching over the dianthus containers.

Our angel, sheathed in gossamer cobwebs, watches over the Italianate containers of dianthus.

Smooth small river rocks that once graced the base of our trees, which Rex moved around as some form of dog amusement, covered up the dirt in between the containers with the dianthus. I then filled up the remaining dirt spaces with orange decomposed granite, leftover from the slate walkway in our side-yard garden. I grabbed some wedges of slate and patterned them around the rosary bush. We reclaimed the slab of leftover granite from our bathroom remodel that stood for years in a corner of the backyard and moved it over – with help from our wheelbarrow – and leaned it against the fence. Now things were starting to take shape.

Our "found" art - leftover slab of granite - against the fence.

Our “found” art – leftover slab of granite – against the fence and stone acorn next to the tamed rosemary bush.

Muted blue-green containers of colorful flowers and a row of dahlias behind them.

Muted blue-green containers of colorful flowers and a row of dahlias behind them.

We brought a few more containers from other parts of the backyard to the courtyard, and we turned out the very impacted alstroemeria plants and gave them new life – hopefully! – in the front yard. To the dianthus garden, I added scabiosa caucasica “Fama Blue,” scabiosa caucasica “Perfecta Alba” (snowy white!), catananche caerulea “Cupid’s Dart” (a sky blue) dinner-plate dahlias (purple, red, and white) and miniature dahlias (purple and yellowish orange), and more dianthus. My friend Shawn gave me a cup full of sweet pea seeds, and I’m hoping they pop up and climb the trellis that I found in our utility room and propped up next to one of the containers. Jacob helped me break up the hard clay soil with a pick ax so I could plant the dahlias in the ground.

Details, details - smaller vases to house short-stemmed flowers. I added a flat, rectangular vase on the shelf that braces an umbrella stand for a floral tiered effect.

Details, details – smaller vases to house short-stemmed flowers. I added a flat, rectangular vase on the shelf that braces an umbrella stand for a floral tiered effect.

Flowers and candles brighten up any table setting. I liked the bubbled texture of the hurricane glass, which makes the candlelight dance. I found this wonderful iron stand holding a circle of fused glass bottles, which make it easy to create a bouquet that spilleth over, from Flowerland.

Flowers and candles brighten up any table setting. I like the bubbled texture of the hurricane glass, which makes the candlelight dance. I found this wonderful iron stand holding a circle of fused glass bottles, which make it easy to create a bouquet that spilleth over, from Flowerland.

He also helped me repaint the patio furniture. We washed, scrubbed, sanded down, and washed the seven pieces, and I spray-painted them to a smooth matte black. They looked brand new, and I broke out the navy-and-white-striped chair and chaise lounge pads that had been stored in the garage for years. Jacob had to scrub the concrete where I had gotten some black spray paint on the concrete, but the problem was that now there were clean spots amid the layers and years of grime in the concrete. So, being anal retentive, I took a steel scrub brush and scrubbed the dirt away – the manual version of power washing, but without the water. It looks so much better now, and with the large cracks patched, the courtyard floor is done.

Details, details - I spied this rusted cut-out metal butterfly from Westbrae Nursery.

Details, details – I spied this rusted cut-out metal butterfly at Westbrae Nursery. We reclaimed the smooth stones from the base of our trees and filled in decomposed granite around the dianthus containers.

Next, I imagined an additional smaller table and two chairs against one of the walls, which would accommodate having friends over. Happily, I found what I was looking for at a reasonable cost at Costco – along with the dinner-plate dahlias. I spied solid navy chair pads to complement the existing ones and little garden décor all on clearance at Target. Birdhouses on clearance at Jo-Ann Fabric & Craft Store hang stately from our peach tree. Candles and small vases for smaller blooms grace the tables, providing that extra decorating detail.

As Isabella sees it, until we put bird seed in the feeder, we have three birdhouses and a zero bird population under the peach tree.

As Isabella sees it, until we put bird seed in the feeder, we have three birdhouses and zero bird population under the peach tree.

I wanted to showcase metal sculptures made of recycled metal barrels made by artisans in the Haitian village of Croix-des-Bouquets on the two walls and fence. These Haitian metal sculptures are very popular in our area. I found mine at Jenny K (6921 Stockton Avenue, El Cerrito, CA 94530, 510.528.5350), Annie’s Annuals (740 Market Avenue, Richmond, CA 94801, 510.215.3301), and Westbrae Nursery (1272 Gilman Street, Berkeley, CA 94706, 510.526.5517). My chosen motifs were the tree of life, birds, dragonflies, and plants and flowers, And, of course, no garden should go without a string of solar lights along the fence to provide night-time wonder.

Of the five metal sculptures, this 3D flower and bird is my favorite.

Of the five metal sculptures, this 3D flower and bird is my favorite.

During this transformation, when it was close to being done, Isabella took to reading her books in the morning. The chaise lounge became Jacob’s destination when he took breaks from hacking at the hard clay soil. While scrubbing the concrete, I took my rare break and sat back and stared at the garden and the courtyard. We were finally getting our little backyard area to hang out. We eat our breakfasts and read the Sunday paper under the umbrella at the patio table. We take our lunches at the courtyard. Sometimes I feel like I’m at the Wildflower Café in Exeter (121 S. E. Street, Exeter, CA 93221, 559.592.2656), enjoying the sun and breakfast and, believe it or not, relaxing.

Another view of the courtyard from the back side - showing three of the metal sculptures, including the tree of life.

Another view of the courtyard from the back side – showing three of the metal sculptures, including the tree of life from Jenny K, and the row of dahlias.

I worked passionately on this project, getting every element in place, every position in the courtyard to have a pleasing view. I also wanted to get our cozy little courtyard completed by the time my cousin Janet and her husband Tim arrived for their annual Fourth of July visit. With flowers abloom on the patio table and in the colorful containers, David served a summer pasta of tomatoes, kalamata olives, anchovies, and herbs (mint, parsley, marjoram, and basil) and Isabella offered her home-baked chocolate chip cookies for a post-Oakland A’s game and fireworks meal for Janet and Tim. With dancing light from the votive candle and another candle under a hurricane glass, we stayed up late, listening to 70s music and catching up on the cool Bay Area night. Priceless.

I pulled the vintage tea cup from our side-yard garden to our courtyard. It was made by Janet and given to us years ago!

I pulled the vintage tea cup from our side-yard garden to our courtyard. It was made by Janet and given to us years ago!

We look forward to our little outdoor entertaining and then later for reading books and magazines, eating popsicles when the hot weather returns, serving gourmet meals, and being lazy outdoors, as these activities are what summers are made for.

Leisurely family meals and entertaining family and friends - that's why summers and courtyards exist.

Leisurely family meals and entertaining family and friends – that’s why summers and courtyards exist.

Summer obsession: flowers and more flowers

I must have flowers, always, and always.
– Claude Monet, founder of French impressionist painting

I’ve been away from blogging for two weeks – the longest stretch that I’ve not been blogging. In that time, I have become uber-obsessed with nurturing the garden. Although I’ve been tending to my flower garden for years – 17 to be exact, the last few years have seen minimal effort from me because of a lack of time.

Wide-ranging Portola bouquet.

Wide-ranging Portola bouquet.

June 20th Portola bouquet front side.

June 20th Portola bouquet front side.

June 20th Portola bouquet back side.

June 20th Portola bouquet back side.

A bountiful second weekly Portola bouquet.

A bountiful second weekly Portola bouquet.

This summer, I succumbed to the allure of the local nurseries – discovering or rediscovering nurseries closer to me than my usual haunt of Annie’s Annuals (740 Market Avenue, Richmond, CA 94801, 510.215.3301). I’ll come back in another blog post to my visits to a couple of rediscovered nurseries, but for now, I’m just going to share the fruits of my labor. I’ll also post on Friday my latest garden project, which is at the heart of my absence of blogging and the mother of all obsessions of the garden kind.

July 1st anniversary bouquet for my friends Kelly and Scott side 1. See the dianthus chomley farran's bicolor purple and red stripes at the top of the bouquet!

July 1st anniversary bouquet for my friends Kelly and Scott side 1. See the dianthus chomley farran’s bicolor purple and red stripes at the top of the bouquet and the explosion of dinner-plate white dahlias! It’s also the last of the peachy gladiolas.

July 1st anniversary bouquet for my friends Kelly and Scott side 2, with new deep purple dahlias.

July 1st anniversary bouquet for my friends Kelly and Scott side 2, with new deep purple dahlias.

July 1st anniversary bouquet for my friends Kelly and Scott side 3, featuring scabiosa caucasica 'Fama Blue.'

July 1st anniversary bouquet for my friends Kelly and Scott side 3, featuring scabiosa caucasica ‘Fama Blue’ to the left, the first time it’s really bloomed for me this summer. And the yellow dahlias are starting to bloom.

Here, I present the latest couple of weeks’ worth of flowers. I have a bounty, but I confess to having planted quite a number of new dahlias, while many of last year’s dahlias are still forming buds, and trying new perennials and annuals that self-sow to bring variety to the garden and future bouquets. Enjoy!

Bouquet close-up....

Bouquet close-up….

Almost-black burgundy dahlia, another dinner-plate variety.

Almost-black burgundy dahlia, another dinner-plate variety.

Red-and-white striped dahlia.

Red-and-white striped dahlia.

Spiked burgundy dahlia.

Spiked burgundy dahlia.

The new deep purple dahlia with its multiple fluted petals.

The new deep purple dahlia with its multiple fluted petals.

Lipstick-red dahlia.

Lipstick-red dahlia.

Close-up of the dinner-plate white dahlias - worth the wait.

Close-up of the dinner-plate white dahlias – worth the wait.

Small steps: exploring urban homesteading

A sacred way of life connects us to the people and places around us. That means that a sacred economy must be in large part a local economy, in which we have multidimensional, personal relationships with the land and people who meet our needs, and whose needs are met in turn.
– Juliana Birnbaum Fox, American environmental and social justice writer, educator and founder of the nonprofit Voices in Solidarity, from Sustainable Revolution: Permaculture in Ecovillages, Urban Farms, and Communities Worldwide

Isabella at Annie's Annuals in Richmond, CA.

Isabella at Annie’s Annuals in Richmond, CA.

Last year, my daughter, Isabella, wanted to hatch and raise chicks, so she watched YouTube videos and read blogs and articles on the Internet. She presented her case for investing in chicks, ticking off the benefits of raising chickens. When we said no, undeterred, she built a chicken coop out of a cardboard box and populated it with cotton-ball chickens and shredded-paper “hay.” After a few months of begging and being stonewalled, she gave up and shut down the coop, which had sat in the middle of her bedroom for weeks.

Her obsession with chickens was rekindled in May when we resumed our trips to East Bay Nursery (2332 San Pablo Avenue, Berkeley, CA 94702, 510.845.6490) and Annie’s Annuals (740 Market Avenue, Richmond, CA 94801, 510.215.3301), which has a chicken coop. The love of plants and gardening sprang forth for the both of us as it always does in spring, as reliably as my dahlias and other perennials. In addition to her desire to plant a vegetable garden in the backyard, the argument for raising chickens also returned, but this time around, I admit that I was intrigued with the benefits. Home-raised chicken eggs are superior in taste than industrially raised eggs. Chickens eat snails and other pests. They till the soil with their pecking. Their manure is excellent fertilizer. But at what cost in terms of infrastructure and management, especially when Isabella has been known to be fickle with pet obsessions and neglectful of her pet gecko?

While David gave a flat-out no, I thought the situation begged for a teachable moment. I gave her a long-term assignment, which begins now that school is out. She is to research the cost of setting up, resources, and time, and what the daily management entailed – beyond watching videos of Becky the homesteader on YouTube. She is also to show us better pet ownership by taking better care of her gecko (read: remove piles of poop from Puntos’ tank). By late winter, she will present her findings and we will determine next steps based on the findings, her commitment to the project, and, most importantly, our inevitable responsibilities. The goal is not to ultimately thwart her desire but to gather facts. I understand the benefits, but I don’t have the time to end up doing the work. I can be convinced IF she will take control, the benefits truly outweigh the drawbacks, the costs zero out, and I don’t have to do much at all.

Rachel Kaplan gave an inspiring presentation under the tent at Annie's Annuals.

Rachel Kaplan gave an inspiring presentation under the tent at Annie’s Annuals.

Fortuitously for Isabella, Annie’s Annuals presented an Urban Homesteading Design Lab this past Saturday given by Rachel Kaplan, who co-wrote a book with K. Ruby Blume about their and others’ efforts toward urban homesteading. Urban Homesteading: Heirloom Skills for Sustainable Living, is a tutorial for turning our urban environment into a diversified healthy ecosystem and embracing a regenerative culture. Rachel has moved away from using the term sustainability because she feels we ultimately cannot achieve sustainability. Rather, we need to adjust ourselves in the face of significant changes. We need to be resilient.

Rachel is an advocate of permaculture, which is based on three ethical principles: earth care (recognizing that the earth is the source of all life and that we are a part of it and not apart from it); people care (supporting and helping one another change our lifestyles to do no harm to us or the planet, including developing healthy societies that focus on earth care); and fair share (limiting our consumption of earth’s limited resources and using those resources in equitable and wise ways and working toward a just outcome for systems of our culture that have endured oppression and genocide).

Rachel emphasized that it doesn’t do any good if only one of us or a few of us live consciously. But if we are part of a growing movement, then what we do in our urban environment will make a difference. I didn’t have paper or pen on hand, and my memory is faulty, but I came away with a thing or two – including her book, which both Isabella and I look forward to reading and which Rachel happily signed at Isabella’s request. Rachel entreated urban homesteaders to create or grow more than they use. Fair share or sharecropping – if you can’t grow tomatoes but your neighborhood can and your neighbor would love the honey that your bees produce – encourages communication and connection with others and creates the proverbial village.

Following up on that concept of connectivity is achieving integration in all of our relationships – human, animal, and plant. Much to Isabella’s delight, Rachel introduced the concept of “stacking” functions by way of the chicken, which provides eggs, meat, feathers, and rich fertilizer. Chickens are many things at once, which is a good thing in a world of limited resources. That makes chickens valuable in this type of ecosystem. Rachel emphasized that stacking – benefits from just being  – is distinct from multi-tasking, which we all know is not a good thing on the body or brain.

Blueprint for an urban homesteading site.

Blueprint for an urban homesteading site.

Speaking of multi-tasking, Rachel also pointed out that homesteading shouldn’t be a burden. Don’t go big. Take small steps. Only do what you can. Only do what you have the resources and energy to do. Don’t kill yourself. She gave a great example. Rachel collects rain water, but it was a labor intensive and exhausting chore of hauling and distributing the water to her garden until she was able to get a system built to replace the manual steps. We need to be as efficient as we can with the least amount of resources, not unlike the mantra of reduce, reuse, recycle.

I came away interested in learning more about urban homesteading. Although it sounds hip and it’s certainly living a conscientious life, I can’t see myself becoming a beekeeper or installing a compostable toilet. I cringed just a little when she discouraged traveling by plane or long distances by car, which contributes to an expanded carbon footprint. But I do see ourselves setting up a small garden and being better about water conservation and conserving other resources. As for the chickens, I’ll wait for Isabella’s report when late winter is upon us. Stay tuned.