Westbrae Nursery and Flowerland: flowers and treasures

A garden to walk in and immensity to dream in – what more could he ask? A few flowers at his feet and above him the stars.
– Victor Hugo, French poet, playwright, novelist, essayist, visual artist, statesman, human rights campaigner, and leader of the Romantic movement in France, from Les Misérables

I have been going to Annie’s Annuals (740 Market Avenue, Richmond, CA 94801, 510.215.3301) exclusively to purchase my flowers for a few years now. Looking for new inspiration, I decided to go to a couple of nurseries that I hadn’t gone to in a long time and ones that are much closer to me than Annie’s Annuals. Good thing. Not only did I find healthy plants at good prices, but I also found garden treasures.

Westbrae Nursery is tucked away in a mixed residential and business district.

Westbrae Nursery is tucked away in a mixed residential and business district.

Westbrae Nursery
Westbrae Nursery (1272 Gilman Avenue, Berkeley, CA 94706, 510.526.5517) is located in north Berkeley and a short 10-minute drive for me. The nursery has a great selection of bushy, healthy-looking plants. Scattered throughout the lot is beautiful pottery for container gardens and inside is a great selection of wall art and artistic gifts. The staff is friendly and helpful. And I found lots of big dahlia plants.

A colorful and welcoming entrance.

A colorful and welcoming entrance.

Westbrae has a nice selection of annuals and perennial plants.

Westbrae has a nice selection of annuals and perennial plants.

Flowerland
While I have been to Flowerland (1330 Solano Avenue, Albany, CA 94706, 510.526.3550) before, I never paid much attention to the inside shop of the nursery. Surely I would have noticed such a well curated shop before, so maybe it has been  renovated since I’ve been there years before. At any rate, what a wonderful surprise from the inside out.

One side of the store front of Flowerland - plant a rainbow, indeed!

One side of the store front of Flowerland – plant a rainbow, indeed!

Colorful bistro tables and chairs welcome you to Flowerland.

Colorful bistro tables and chairs welcome you to Flowerland.

Vegetable plants are housed in the top right of the nursery under strings of light.

Vegetable plants are housed in the top right of the nursery under strings of light.

Beyond the grasses is the vegetable area of the nursery.

Beyond the grasses is the vegetable area of the nursery.

First the garden part of Flowerland. I remember Flowerland to be much smaller, so what a pleasant surprise to see the vegetable section, a wide array of terra-cotta pottery, brightly colored bistro tables and chairs. And a retro airstream trailer that has been converted to a café called Local 123 that serves coffee, tea and ice pops.

A sleek silver retro travel trailer is parked in front of Flowerland, serving ice pops and beverages.

A sleek silver retro travel trailer is parked in front of Flowerland, serving ice pops and beverages.

Rusted retro chairs invite gardeners to sit for a spell and enjoy an ice pop.

Rusted retro chairs invite gardeners to sit for a spell and enjoy an ice pop.

An uber cool retro travel trailer.

An uber cool retro travel trailer.

The shop itself is charming, reminding me of the eclectic shops in places like Wicker Park in Chicago and Brooklyn. Earthy jewelry, terrariums and succulents, vintage-inspired toys, garden books, greeting cards, miniature garden accessories, gardening tools, vases, and more! My photos don’t do the shop justice, so you’ll have to go in and take your time in the tiny but packed shop. My only complaint is that staff could have been friendlier. But when you find unexpected treasures, once you’re home with them and have found a place in the garden for your gem, that’s all that matters.

The find - a carved ring (displayed on a candlestick) with a smooth wooden band.

The find – a carved ring (displayed on a candlestick) with a smooth wooden band. And also (not shown) a vintage-inspired tin wind-up toy of a carnival airplane ride.

Rustic shop with nature's gifts.

Rustic shop with nature’s gifts.

An inviting shop filled with garden décor and garden-inspired gifts.

An inviting shop filled with garden décor and garden-inspired gifts.

A cabinet full of earthy jewelry.

A cabinet full of earthy jewelry.

A ‘Vintage’ 4th of July

Let us dance in the sun, wearing wild flowers in our hair.
– Susan Polis Schutz, American poet

The 4th of July has come and gone, and I’m in recovery mode. A lot of work went into creating the courtyard and preparing for my cousin Janet and her husband Tim’s annual visit for this three-day holiday. First things first, though, was meeting up with them at Oakland Coliseum’s O.co for a date with the Oakland A’s against the Toronto Blue Jays. They got a late start from leaving the Central Valley and finally got to the ballpark in the 5th inning. We got caught up and imbibed – yes, they serve wine at O.co – and cheered the local team to the first win of what would become a four-game sweep by the time the 4th of July weekend ended. For the third year in a row, we enjoyed the fireworks show after the game, but minus Jacob, who celebrated his friend Connor’s birthday by cavorting on the grassy field during the show. As a child, I was never that excited about fireworks, but magic happens when you watch your kids’ faces light up with delight and wonder, and it matters where you are and who you’re with. Magic.

First up for the long weekend - the A's defeat the Toronto Blue Jays before the fireworks show.

First up for the long weekend – the A’s defeat the Toronto Blue Jays before the fireworks show.

Ready for fireworks!

Ready for fireworks!

Colorful cobwebs or lightning - the fireworks are beautiful just the same.

Colorful cobwebs or lightning – the fireworks are beautiful just the same.

Spectacular fireworks come raining down.

Spectacular fireworks come raining down.

Despite the fog trying to ruin our little parade, the sun came out enough to allow us to enjoy having breakfast, lunch, and dinner (except for Friday evening) in the courtyard. While the evenings were cool, we were protected by the walls and fence, and spent late nights with blankets, music from Frank Sinatra and his gang, and conversations illuminated by candlelight and string of lights surrounding us. Breakfast sandwiches, pancakes and bacon – mornings were especially ripe for relaxing and taking our time. After the flurry of preparation, this is exactly what I needed, but it’s what everyone should be doing on this particular holiday. Enjoy the weather, family and friends, and traditions, and be grateful for what we have. After breakfast, we walked to Cerrito Vista Park for the city’s annual 4th of July celebration. Lots of music, fun booths, and bumping into friends. We listened to a wonderful performance by the El Cerrito High School’s jazz band, which just left to compete in numerous European jazz festivals.

Annual El Cerrito 4th of July celebration at Cerrito Vista Park.

Annual El Cerrito 4th of July celebration at Cerrito Vista Park.

On Saturday, Janet, Isabella, and I foraged for vintage and salvage goods at Ohmega Salvage (2403 San Pablo Avenue, Berkeley, CA 94702, 510.843.7368) and Urban Ore (900 Murray Street, Berkeley, CA 94710, 510.841.7283). Urban Ore has been the epicenter of inexpensive (read: $1 to $3 per item) glass vases for my bouquets. It’s always fun to poke around these places, even if you come away empty-handed. It’s the experience that makes these forays so fun. At Ohmega Salvage, we were treated to a spirited performance by Cuban Maestro Fito Reinoso & Clasicos de Cuba while we shopped.

Omega Salvage featured an art and garden show, plus Cuban Maestro Fito Reinoso & Clasicos de Cuba.

Omega Salvage featured an art and garden show, plus Cuban Maestro Fito Reinoso & Clasicos de Cuba.

After such a fun afternoon, it was easy to lure Janet to the Alameda Flea Market (also known as the Alameda Pointe Antiques Faire), which is the largest antiques show in Northern California. I first attended the flea market (2900 Navy Way, Alameda, CA 94501, 510.522.7500) with my friend Raissa back in March, but our morning was cut short by mist-turned-rain. This time around, the fog burned off easily, but we were constrained by needing to be back by 11AM to take Isabella to her organic farm camp that early afternoon. We made the best of our time, staking out a route and only stopping when something caught our eye.

The fog slowly burned away to reveal a view of San Francisco's skyline.

The fog slowly burned away to reveal a view of San Francisco’s skyline.

It wasn’t easy, and though we covered a lot of territory, I didn’t like feeling so rushed. Next time, I told myself. Janet was going crazy with the sensory overload and the miles of white tents before us. She loves salvaged goods and got lots of DIY ideas from the various wares. Favorite vendor of the day? Williams Antiks (707.332.0890). William was very cheerful and knowledgeable, explaining what some of the contraptions were in his booth. He and his wife travel to France and bring back really high-end beautiful vintage and antique items such as puppets, tiles, mannequins, and furniture. While there were many vendors who bring back fabulous French goods, I was hurting for Italian vendors, given the courtyard’s vibe. I found, however, a wonderful addition to my courtyard, and I’m glad I pulled the trigger on the spot. William had to throw a blanket over it to keep it safe from other interested buyers, and when I wheeled it out and into the parking lot, my little find received many a compliment from an enviable flea market shopper.

One of my favorite booths of the day - Williams Antiks.

One of my favorite booths of the day – Williams Antiks.

I spy a garden cart that wants to come home with me and settle in my courtyard.

I spy a garden cart that wants to come home with me and settle in my courtyard.

There were so many great items for a more expansive back yard, but that will come later. Isabella found her Breyer horses for a song. Janet picked up a mining cart, of all things, which was heavy and beautiful. And I found a pair of architecturally stunning teal iron chairs that I carried around with us and then shoved into the back seat of my car, both no small feat. After we dropped Isabella off at camp and returned home, I clipped back the dripping branches of the peach tree, rearranged the bird houses, and settled the chairs in their new spot. Lovely. It needs either pea gravel or crushed granite instead of dirt. And the other problem, according to Jacob, is that it needs a small table for the food that the people sitting in the chairs will be eating. Well, I told him, I guess I’ll have to venture to the flea market in August. Maybe, fingers crossed, that rusted iron headboard that I knew wouldn’t fit in the car will be there waiting for me. Until then, it’s time to enjoy post-holiday time and the rest of July relaxing in the courtyard.

The new spot for the garden cart, awaiting tea towels, napkins, hanging wine glasses, and fine chocolates to go with the bouquet of flowers.

The new spot for the earthy green iron garden cart, awaiting tea towels, napkins, hanging wine glasses, and fine chocolates to go with the bouquet of flowers.

Come sit under the peach tree and invite birds to join us....

Come sit under the trimmed-up peach tree and invite birds to join us….

Backyard reclamation project: cozy courtyard

Deep summer is when laziness finds respectability.
– Sam Keen, American author, professor, and philosopher

It’s all done now – the project that claimed every waking moment of my life the last month. What started as a dianthus garden in a corner of the backyard (it was the only place in the backyard where plants would not be smashed by basketballs and teenaged boys) bloomed into a backyard reclamation project and finally evolved into a cozy courtyard. My only regret is that I didn’t take “before” photos so that everyone outside of my family can appreciate the transformation as much as we can.

My new dianthus garden in a corner of the backyard, with poppies and an unknown plant.

I don’t really have a “before” shot before I moved the containers from other areas of the yard to this spot for the dianthus garden, but this is as close as I can get to what the corner of the yard looked like before the transformation. The composter is gone, as are the discarded building materials.

So just imagine a concrete square outside of our garage and utility room. As recently as two months ago, a neglected but thriving rosemary bush near the side yard gate planted by Joe, the first owner of the property, took up about one-eighth of the concrete square. I engaged in two separate hacking sessions to get the very hardy bush to its current small tree-like shape. When the weather got warmer, I looked longingly at our rusted patio furniture in the dust bowl of our center backyard – a table with four chairs and a chaise lounge, which Rex, in his younger, energetic days, used more than any of us, as his lookout for squirrels and neighborhood cat intruders. Discarded building materials comprising pipes and boards and a broken-up plastic bin full of sprinkler parts littered the concrete square. I threw them over the north side gate on the strip of concrete that harbors stacks of leftover slate from our south side garden, and dragged the patio furniture to the space.

A view of the courtyard from the back side.

A view of the courtyard from the back side – with Isabella enjoying it as well. Shielded on three sides, even when the Bay Area fog and wind roll in, the courtyard is protected and the peach and cherry trees isolate us from our neighbors.

A bistro table and set of chairs find a home on the opposite side of the fence, along with potted flowers, metal sculptures and a string of solar lights.

A bistro table and set of chairs find a home on the opposite side of the fence, along with potted flowers, metal sculptures and a string of solar lights.

That worked for a bit. When it was my turn to pick up Isabella and her friends from drama camp in the afternoons, the girls retreated to the chaise lounge and chairs, eating cups of ice cream in the warm weather, which was unusual for our June. That’s when I started imagining a cozy courtyard, filled with blooming flowers in containers, not just in the dianthus garden, but on the other side, up against the side of the house. I looked around the rest of the yard to see what I could spirit away or rescue to build into the courtyard. I wanted to use what we already had in our yard first in order to be green. A beloved rusted “garden” sign, which was hidden behind a small tree in our side garden found a new home on our red fence, and an angel, an acorn, and a bird feeder all migrated to the new space.

Transplanted garden sign and its new companions on the fence - a string of solar lights and a metal winged insect.

Transplanted garden sign and its new companions on the fence – a string of solar lights and a metal winged insect.

An angel watching over the dianthus containers.

Our angel, sheathed in gossamer cobwebs, watches over the Italianate containers of dianthus.

Smooth small river rocks that once graced the base of our trees, which Rex moved around as some form of dog amusement, covered up the dirt in between the containers with the dianthus. I then filled up the remaining dirt spaces with orange decomposed granite, leftover from the slate walkway in our side-yard garden. I grabbed some wedges of slate and patterned them around the rosary bush. We reclaimed the slab of leftover granite from our bathroom remodel that stood for years in a corner of the backyard and moved it over – with help from our wheelbarrow – and leaned it against the fence. Now things were starting to take shape.

Our "found" art - leftover slab of granite - against the fence.

Our “found” art – leftover slab of granite – against the fence and stone acorn next to the tamed rosemary bush.

Muted blue-green containers of colorful flowers and a row of dahlias behind them.

Muted blue-green containers of colorful flowers and a row of dahlias behind them.

We brought a few more containers from other parts of the backyard to the courtyard, and we turned out the very impacted alstroemeria plants and gave them new life – hopefully! – in the front yard. To the dianthus garden, I added scabiosa caucasica “Fama Blue,” scabiosa caucasica “Perfecta Alba” (snowy white!), catananche caerulea “Cupid’s Dart” (a sky blue) dinner-plate dahlias (purple, red, and white) and miniature dahlias (purple and yellowish orange), and more dianthus. My friend Shawn gave me a cup full of sweet pea seeds, and I’m hoping they pop up and climb the trellis that I found in our utility room and propped up next to one of the containers. Jacob helped me break up the hard clay soil with a pick ax so I could plant the dahlias in the ground.

Details, details - smaller vases to house short-stemmed flowers. I added a flat, rectangular vase on the shelf that braces an umbrella stand for a floral tiered effect.

Details, details – smaller vases to house short-stemmed flowers. I added a flat, rectangular vase on the shelf that braces an umbrella stand for a floral tiered effect.

Flowers and candles brighten up any table setting. I liked the bubbled texture of the hurricane glass, which makes the candlelight dance. I found this wonderful iron stand holding a circle of fused glass bottles, which make it easy to create a bouquet that spilleth over, from Flowerland.

Flowers and candles brighten up any table setting. I like the bubbled texture of the hurricane glass, which makes the candlelight dance. I found this wonderful iron stand holding a circle of fused glass bottles, which make it easy to create a bouquet that spilleth over, from Flowerland.

He also helped me repaint the patio furniture. We washed, scrubbed, sanded down, and washed the seven pieces, and I spray-painted them to a smooth matte black. They looked brand new, and I broke out the navy-and-white-striped chair and chaise lounge pads that had been stored in the garage for years. Jacob had to scrub the concrete where I had gotten some black spray paint on the concrete, but the problem was that now there were clean spots amid the layers and years of grime in the concrete. So, being anal retentive, I took a steel scrub brush and scrubbed the dirt away – the manual version of power washing, but without the water. It looks so much better now, and with the large cracks patched, the courtyard floor is done.

Details, details - I spied this rusted cut-out metal butterfly from Westbrae Nursery.

Details, details – I spied this rusted cut-out metal butterfly at Westbrae Nursery. We reclaimed the smooth stones from the base of our trees and filled in decomposed granite around the dianthus containers.

Next, I imagined an additional smaller table and two chairs against one of the walls, which would accommodate having friends over. Happily, I found what I was looking for at a reasonable cost at Costco – along with the dinner-plate dahlias. I spied solid navy chair pads to complement the existing ones and little garden décor all on clearance at Target. Birdhouses on clearance at Jo-Ann Fabric & Craft Store hang stately from our peach tree. Candles and small vases for smaller blooms grace the tables, providing that extra decorating detail.

As Isabella sees it, until we put bird seed in the feeder, we have three birdhouses and a zero bird population under the peach tree.

As Isabella sees it, until we put bird seed in the feeder, we have three birdhouses and zero bird population under the peach tree.

I wanted to showcase metal sculptures made of recycled metal barrels made by artisans in the Haitian village of Croix-des-Bouquets on the two walls and fence. These Haitian metal sculptures are very popular in our area. I found mine at Jenny K (6921 Stockton Avenue, El Cerrito, CA 94530, 510.528.5350), Annie’s Annuals (740 Market Avenue, Richmond, CA 94801, 510.215.3301), and Westbrae Nursery (1272 Gilman Street, Berkeley, CA 94706, 510.526.5517). My chosen motifs were the tree of life, birds, dragonflies, and plants and flowers, And, of course, no garden should go without a string of solar lights along the fence to provide night-time wonder.

Of the five metal sculptures, this 3D flower and bird is my favorite.

Of the five metal sculptures, this 3D flower and bird is my favorite.

During this transformation, when it was close to being done, Isabella took to reading her books in the morning. The chaise lounge became Jacob’s destination when he took breaks from hacking at the hard clay soil. While scrubbing the concrete, I took my rare break and sat back and stared at the garden and the courtyard. We were finally getting our little backyard area to hang out. We eat our breakfasts and read the Sunday paper under the umbrella at the patio table. We take our lunches at the courtyard. Sometimes I feel like I’m at the Wildflower Café in Exeter (121 S. E. Street, Exeter, CA 93221, 559.592.2656), enjoying the sun and breakfast and, believe it or not, relaxing.

Another view of the courtyard from the back side - showing three of the metal sculptures, including the tree of life.

Another view of the courtyard from the back side – showing three of the metal sculptures, including the tree of life from Jenny K, and the row of dahlias.

I worked passionately on this project, getting every element in place, every position in the courtyard to have a pleasing view. I also wanted to get our cozy little courtyard completed by the time my cousin Janet and her husband Tim arrived for their annual Fourth of July visit. With flowers abloom on the patio table and in the colorful containers, David served a summer pasta of tomatoes, kalamata olives, anchovies, and herbs (mint, parsley, marjoram, and basil) and Isabella offered her home-baked chocolate chip cookies for a post-Oakland A’s game and fireworks meal for Janet and Tim. With dancing light from the votive candle and another candle under a hurricane glass, we stayed up late, listening to 70s music and catching up on the cool Bay Area night. Priceless.

I pulled the vintage tea cup from our side-yard garden to our courtyard. It was made by Janet and given to us years ago!

I pulled the vintage tea cup from our side-yard garden to our courtyard. It was made by Janet and given to us years ago!

We look forward to our little outdoor entertaining and then later for reading books and magazines, eating popsicles when the hot weather returns, serving gourmet meals, and being lazy outdoors, as these activities are what summers are made for.

Leisurely family meals and entertaining family and friends - that's why summers and courtyards exist.

Leisurely family meals and entertaining family and friends – that’s why summers and courtyards exist.

A Tiny, mighty change: 8th grade graduations and promotions

True life is lived when tiny changes occur.
– Leo Tolstoy, Russian novelist and short story writer

Pre-ceremony moment with Number 1 son.

Pre-ceremony moment with Number 1 son.

Prior to Jacob’s 8th grade promotion ceremony last night, all week I had been adrift in reminiscing. I remembered my own 8th grade graduation as I rejoiced and also felt bittersweet about his minor rite of passage, with the swift feet of time luring him away from me. I couldn’t find any photos of my graduation, but I distinctly remembered details so vivid it startled me. My Auntie Leonora, my mom’s sister-in-law, sewed my maxi dress of tiny blue flowers against a cream background, with the bodice trimmed with lace and petite luminous blue buttons. June 8, 1976. As we were getting ready for the event after dinner, my mother made her way to the bathroom with a fish bone stuck in her throat. I ran down the hallway, panicked that she was choking to death. She was fine after coughing up the bone, but I realized at that moment how much she meant to me – despite our cultural and generational differences at the time. My mother meted out tough love but only because she wanted me to work hard and succeed.Mr. Vangsness, our choral teacher, conducted us as we sang Morris Albert’s “Feelings,” a popular 1975 song, and a dog understandably howled in the background. Nobody snickered or laughed out loud, but I was embarrassed nonetheless. [Don’t ask why an elementary school choir would sing a song about a heartbroken man at an 8th grade graduation.]

Some of my mementos from elementary school - awards, a cassette from honor choir, hand-drawn "photos" and handmade letters for my cheerleading sweatshirt - I know, even my own son was surprised at this revelation.

Mementos from elementary school – awards, honor choir cassette(!), hand-drawn “photos” and handmade letters for my cheerleading sweatshirt – I know, even my own son was surprised at this revelation.

Spurred by my memories, I took to the attic and dug into the big plastic tub that holds my journals and mementos of my life up to college. I’ve sifted through this tub before to flip through my journals and other writings, but I haven’t gone through the letters, my certificates of perfect attendance and scholarship, report cards, school reports, my overwrought prose from my English assignments in years. I was astonished to find that I still have my 8th graduation program, which is in pristine condition.

Terra Bella, my hometown and home to my K-8 elementary school, wasn’t big enough to warrant having a high school. There were two high schools in the next town over, Porterville, and where you lived relative to the train tracks determined which school you attended. Mostly everyone attended Porterville High School because a greater percentage of the town’s population lived on one side of the tracks. I chose to follow my two sisters, who were going to the newer high school. But that meant I would be separated from all my friends. It meant I would be a lone wolf until I made new friends. Another girl from my school ended up going, but we weren’t close and didn’t hang out in elementary school. I sheepishly asked my middle sister, a junior, if I could hang out with her. She begrudgingly agreed, though I had to walk behind her and her group of friends, no doubt because she had been telling people since she got to high school that she was an only child.

Four bouquets from our garden for Portola's 8th grade promotion ceremony.

Four bouquets from our garden for Portola’s 8th grade promotion ceremony.

Styling the dress before the big haircut.

Styling the dress before the big haircut.

I was scared of high school, though I had outgrown being at the same rural school for nine years and being with the same kids for almost a decade. At the same time, I was curious and excited. I had the rare opportunity early in life to reinvent myself in a new environment. Nobody knew me. There’s a certain freedom in anonymity, in not being encumbered by complicated friendships and loyalties. I was ready to bust out of my little hometown. I was ready for a bigger school, a variety of classes – I had a thirst for pure knowledge and learning – new friends, and new experiences and adventures. The proverbial bigger pond.

This stunner of a dress only needs simple yet elegant accessories: equally stunning Personal Pizazz drop earrings (Berkeley, CA), Elizabeth Ng antique button ring (Abacus, Portland, ME), and vintage bracelet (eBay).

This stunner of a dress only needs simple yet elegant accessories: equally stunning Ben Amun drop earrings (Personal Pizazz, Berkeley, CA), Elizabeth Ng antique button ring (Abacus, Portland, ME), and vintage bracelet (eBay).

Graduating from my elementary school, really, was the beginning of the journey for me. With each step, graduating from Monache High School, Porterville Junior College, UC Davis, and Syracuse University, along with my two years as a Jesuit Volunteer in Alaska and San Francisco, the world continued to grow bigger and bigger. As I, as an 8th grader, walked across the concrete stage to accept my diploma in front of the grassy area filled with families of immigrant workers and farmers on a warm June evening, my excitement was palpable. Life was opening up.

And so it will for Jacob. Happy 8th grade promotion. Tolstoy nailed it: we experience tiny changes, necessary changes, on the way to a true life.

Close-up: beautiful details, including sequined clutch complementing the dress and jewelry.

Close-up: beautiful details, including sequined clutch complementing the dress and jewelry.

Celebrating Jacob's tiny, mighty change.

Celebrating Jacob’s tiny, mighty change. Now to go confidently into this world!

The Dress at 50: now we are 1

If we are facing in the right direction, all we have to do is keep on walking. If it takes a year, or sixty years, or five lifetimes, as long as we’re heading towards light, that’s all that matters.
– Jack Kornfield, American author and Buddhist teacher

This blouse and skirt was an Anthropologie combo from a few years back. Still timeless: sheer silk printed blouse and a clever skirt with vertical wires that you can "scrunch." Fun.

An Anthropologie combo from a few years back. Still timeless: sheer silk printed blouse and a clever skirt with vertical wires that you can “scrunch.” Fun.

A year ago this month, I launched The Dress at 50. My first blog post was my welcome, which I published December 8th and talked about my reasons for starting my “lifestyle” blog. In my first regular blog post, which I published a year ago yesterday, I waxed poetic about my love of vintage – in particular, a certain 1960s faux fur dress that caught my eye at Treasury, a wonderful little vintage shop in Washington, D.C.

Since then, I’ve published 151 posts, starting with a routine of posting on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays. Until recently, I reluctantly reduced my postings to Tuesdays and Fridays because I needed to spend more time with another goal of mine from last year, which was to finish my novel, A Village in the Fields. There were times when I struggled to find something to say, but more often than not, I had a lot to say and a lot to share.

Dangly earrings from Anthropologie, Sundance rings, and beloved chunky Lava 9 ring (Berkeley, CA).

Dangly earrings from Anthropologie, Sundance rings, and beloved chunky Lava 9 ring (Berkeley, CA).

One of the most satisfying things the blog has given me is the opportunity to profile some pretty amazing women, who have inspired me with their courage, creativity, entrepreneurial spirit, and generosity. I got to interview women who started their own businesses and heeded the call to do what they loved to do. In other instances, friends introduced me to women whom they thought I would enjoy getting to know and write about, which I did. What a gift that has been! I haven’t had the chance to do more profiles because of my work and my novel, but I hope to get back to publishing at least one profile a month. My profile of local proprietor Jen Komaromi of Jenny K got the most views ever, with a big spike the day it was posted, which speaks to Jen’s tremendous reach (thanks, Jen!).

Ensemble close-up.

Ensemble close-up.

Another thing I have enjoyed is sharing my little trips within a business trip when I travel. It’s been my hobby to find one thing in each city I visit to seek out and write about. I have been pleasantly surprised to find such gems as the North Carolina Museum of Art in Raleigh, which housed Rodin sculptures inside the museum and in an outdoor garden. I’ve met wonderful people along the way, many who have inspired me, including Carl, the proprietor of Vintage Underground in Chicago. My post “Plant a tree, have a child, write a book” continues to garner daily views, making it the most consistently viewed post.

This is not to say that I have a million followers and a million views a day. Quite the opposite! I reached 10,000 views earlier this month, of which I’m still proud. I have my loyal tribe – thank you, ladies! – despite not having the ability for people to comment, which I’m told is the death knell of blogs (oh well). I had fixed the comment issue, only to have it die on me again. I’m going to try to fix it next month (again), so stay tuned.

Versatile skirt with a bright orange t-shirt, baubles, and equally scrunchy heeled boots.

Versatile skirt with a bright orange t-shirt, baubles, and equally scrunchy heeled boots.

Topics have been varied, but I’ve tried to stay true to my motto of living the creative, meaningful, and full life. Whatever allows me to do so is fair game for a topic. I believe I was more introspective in the early months since launching the blog and less so now as a result of work and trying to finish the novel before the year is over, which has been a herculean task. Again, I hope to do more introspective posts.

Abacus earrings (Portland, ME), "vintage" Anthropologie necklace, Sundance rings, and Lava 9 chunky ring (Berkeley, CA).

Abacus earrings (Portland, ME), “vintage” Anthropologie necklace, Sundance rings, and Lava 9 chunky ring (Berkeley, CA).

Interestingly enough, while I enjoy dressing up, which instills a certain level of self-confidence, I’ve been living in a “uniform” the last several months of knit pants, oversized sweatshirts, and tennis shoes because I’ve been too busy and too exhausted to think about putting on an outfit. I hope to change that routine in the New Year, as well. I’ve enjoyed putting outfits together and seeing how the ensemble looks, and sharing them on my blog. I’ve been drawn more to jewelry of late than clothes and being more deliberate when I do find a piece of clothing that catches my eye. Longevity, quality, sustainability, classic timelessness are the traits that guide me as I wander my favorite shops and new shops. I hope to share those traits in future outfits that I feature in my blog in 2014.

Honestly, there were many times when I would conduct an interview, write a post, or publish the post and think to myself, wouldn’t this be a great day job. I still think that – a part-time job to being a full-time novelist, that is. But for now, I’m content to share what inspires me, what helps me fuel my creativity, and what makes my life more meaningful. Here’s to another year of The Dress at 50. Join me on this journey!

Ensemble close-up.

Ensemble close-up.

Decking the halls

Christmas is the season for kindling the fire of hospitality in the hall, the genial flame of charity in the heart.
– Washington Irving, American author, essayist, historian, and biographer

Every season, we deck our halls at full tilt. I confess that when the kids were much younger, David and I spent more than 48 hours – straight, it seemed – putting up the decorations and by the end of it we were done with the holidays – and the loop of Christmas music, too. We did it for the wonder that we saw in our kids’ eyes and for recreating the kind of Christmas magic that we ourselves associated with the holidays. We also enjoyed the fruits of our labor – sitting in the living room and admiring the lights in the villages and on the tree, smelling the robust Noble Fir tree, warmed by the fire in the fireplace.

Where the family and Rex spend our evenings in December.

Where the family and Rex spend our evenings in December. Note the rustic sign on the armoire: “Bedford Falls, 5 miles” (a holiday gift from my college friend, Susan.

My beloved coffee table displays classic holiday stories, greenery, and a snowman-tree tic-tac-toe game.

My beloved coffee table displays classic holiday stories, greenery, and a snowman-tree tic-tac-toe game, another holiday gift from my college friend Susan from many years ago.

Now that the kids are older, decking the halls is much easier, and labeling boxes that tell us which building and character goes in which room has created quite the efficient process. We created an assembly line from the attic to the living room, and in no time, the halls were indeed decked. And the final ritual – which signaled that the season had officially started in our household – was taking turns showering snow over the villages. In the evenings, all four of us are on the couch. David is working on his laptop, I’m either revising my novel or writing my blog, and the kids are laboring over their homework. Oh, and we drag Rex’s bed and position it next to the fireplace, which keeps him from stretching out across the Christmas tree skirt. It’s a cozy ritual.

A cozy dining room.

A cozy dining room.

Time for a holiday dinner. Decking the halls inspires us to entertain.

Time for a holiday dinner. Decking the halls inspires us to entertain.

The Majestic Theater graces this village on our dining room sideboard.

The Majestic Theater graces this village on our dining room sideboard.

The kids have their own little lighted villages in their rooms, which they will take with them when they have their own homes. And we’ll slowly hand off the buildings and characters to them as the years go by. They even have their own small Christmas tree in their rooms with their own ornaments, given to them or made in school through the years. Our own Christmas tree is full of ornaments that we’ve collected, some as old as when I was in college. Some were gifts, some commemorated births and special occasions. Most of them hold special memories. We are missing a few years, but another tradition is getting a Swarovski star each year. The kids have their own birth years, which again, will be given to them when they have their own homes.

Our family's favorite village - the financial and city hall center - in our library.

Our family’s favorite village – the financial and city hall center – in our library.

A close-up of the village in our library.

A close-up of the village at night in our library.

We’ve had an open house one year and always have family and friends over to enjoy the decorations. Decking the halls and enjoying the evenings together is a cherished tradition that we know our kids will continue when they grow up. I’m grateful that they value it as much as we do. I look forward to the look of wonder and delight in their kids’ eyes when these old villages take up new homes.

A cozy corner in the living room.

A cozy corner in the living room.

My curated Santa collection, which includes the white Santa on the far right from a trip to NYC's Folk Art Museum when I was in graduate school, a small carved Santa from Krakow in 2002, and another carved Santa from a trip to Colorado and the Rocky Mountains in 1993.

My curated Santa collection, which includes the white Santa on the far right from a trip to NYC’s Folk Art Museum when I was in graduate school in 1988, a small carved Santa from Krakow in 2002 to the left of the white Santa, and another tiny carved Santa from a trip to Colorado and the Rocky Mountains in 1993 in the middle front.

The village on our kitchen sideboard is a food court.

The village on our kitchen sideboard is a food court.

Of course, there's a chocolate shop!

Of course, there’s a chocolate shop!

The kitchen village appropriately features restaurants and other food-related shops.

The kitchen village appropriately features restaurants and other food-related shops.